I hate boys who: tell you they love you, but they aren't in love with you.

Kate says:


Really? Whoever thought of this phrase is a genius, but unfortunately, still deserves to be shot. I understand if you're turning DOWN someone, not breaking UP with someone. When you break up with someone, you should have enough respect for them to be honest and tell them the real reason why you're letting them go. This pretty much says "I care about you, but not enough to be with you. But we can totally still bang on the side." Its perfect for guys because it makes them seem like they have feelings for something other than your vagina. Really guys, MAN UP. You've been with this girl for sometime. You know her well enough to know how she takes bad news. Granted, a girl with a broken heart can be more dangerous than a stampede of elephants on crack, but if you're honest with her, I promise you in the long run she will cut you some slack. 


Brittany says: 


Ohhh, this is my favorite line. Probably because it was used on me. haha. Let me just set the stage, this was my boyfriend who used the line on me at the time... And it made me really question his emotional maturity. He had been telling me he loved me pretty quick, and like i had said in past posts we were together for awhile. He used this line as a get out key. And it worked, because it was bullshit and I wasn't about to deal with it, or cry over it. He wasn't worth the tears I had given him before.. Guys who use this line are pretty much just looking for a good way out. Each of us wants to know we are loved, and we hope that when they say it they mean it. Bottom line, if a guy uses this line of you, run as fast as you can in the other direction because hes a sorry excuse for a man, and doesn't know how to break up with you nicely.


To the boys who: tells you they love you, but they aren't in love with you: don't ever try to pull this line off because you obviously don't have a heart. 


How to Deal: If a guy uses this line on you, drop him. If a guy friend is telling you this, it might actually be true. But if a boyfriend is dumping you, RUN. Later on, he'll just use the fact that he "loves you" as an excuse to get into your pants because he still "cares for you" just not enough to be with you anymore. It's a perfect lead up for more sex as well as an easy escape from a relationship. Don't fall victim to the double whammy of holding on to feelings for your ex and sleeping with the guy who dumped you.