Guy: You wanna go upstairs?
Girl: Yeah, that sounds like fun.
Guy: Then just follow me to heaven.
Guys friend: Hey, you wanna play beer pong?
Guy: Nah man, I'm totally about to bang this slut.
Guy's friend: AH! No way, man! That's like the fifth one this week!
Kate says:
I am going to start this post with a little resource called the dictionary. According to UrbanDictionary.com, a popular website among my generation, the definition of slut is "a woman with the morals of a man." I am not making this up. That definition earned the most votes by my peers as the best definition of slut. So let's stop for a second and think about this statement. A slut is a girl who has the same rules of sexual conduct as a guy. Notice how "guy" is not specified. It doesn't say pimp, or frat boy, or even a man whore. It just says guy. And this ladies and gentlemen is how we as a generation have defined our "neighborhood bicycles." As much as I hope this evidence is enough to make guys realize their hypocrisy, I know there are guys out there thinking this statement is absolutely true, and there is nothing wrong with it. Guys want girls to act like them because it makes guys easier to get laid. What guys forget is that we want sex JUST as much as they do, if not more for some of us. Maybe next time, instead of thinking of the girl as a slut, think of her as a guy. A guy just like you who went to this party, who picked you out, who waited for you to approach her, and knew from the moment she decided she was going to go out tonight that all she wanted was to get laid. Just like you. Which makes you just as much of a slut as her.
Brittany says:
This particular thing drives me crazy, though I have never been considered a "slut," at least by my knowledge. What is so frustrating about this is that boys like to play games. Yes, girls do too, but I know for a fact that boys play the game...to see how long it will take for them to get a girl to drop her panties. Until she does, it's all fun and games for them. But once she gives into the boys temptation, they seem to label her differently. Which I find very hard to understand. Here's the difference: guys can do the same thing, sleep with tons of different girls but it all adds to make them seem so much more attractive and gives them "game" when really- they are EXACTLY THE SAME as the girls who choose to do that. She just gets a different name than the guy. It's ridiculous that boys aren't held to the same expectations as girls are. And yes, I use the term boy because NO MAN would ever be so immature to stoop to this level. And any Man who does should really take a look at himself and see if MAN is the correct term to be using. I think boys think of themselves are superior to girls, when in the end, they are just like girls on most levels. They need to get their heads out of their asses and realize that sleeping with a girl who they showed affection for.. means they had some sort of feeling toward her, and she doesn't deserve the title of a slut when he's doing the exact same thing too.
To the boy who: sleeps with a different girl every night, and then refers to her as a slut: she's using you just as much as you're using her. And if she isn't, then you're taking advantage of a girl's hope in finding someone who truly does care about her.
How to Deal: If a boy calls you a slut for having sex with him, it just shows how little self esteem he has. Obviously if he has to resort to sleeping with sluts every week, he doesn't have too much game with the classy ladies. Guys use us girls as pawns in their silly little games they play with each other in order to measure their manliness. Unfortunately, until they learn that manliness is measured in a totally different way, they will never be anything but boys comparing penises on the playground.
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